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the HIGHS and LOWS of DATING

Writer's picture: Louise EmanuelLouise Emanuel

 

THE BOOK OF LOVE


I admire the courageously vulnerable 

braving the fall with freshly grazed skin

I've heard them say we are all a little broken 

and that's how the light gets in

but what happens when this light shines 

on places you'd closed off? 

the hidden chapters of your past 

the ones archived but not lost

because to let someone's love in 

will always reveal your cracks 

the creases in the paper so deep 

they can't be folded back

as time moves forward, unavoidably 

wounds will be revealed

treading on landmines hidden in roses 

with every petal unpeeled

turning the pages of a new love story 

fear stings like a paper cut

something so small, almost invisible 

yet the pain of it hurts so much

but if we let this consume us each time 

closing the book without a second glance 

we will never know what would have happened 

if we had only taken a chance


 

ALONE


modern dating is a great display

of performative emotional distance

withholding feelings in case it doesn't work out,

we suffer in our own resistance

but the reality of life and love is,

there's no protection from the pain of loss 

we cannot safeguard ourselves but stay open,

the greater the love, the greater the cost

if we walk on eggshells,

hide the truth or simply pretend not to care 

we will never satisfy our human need

to deeply connect and share

and if you are the type of person

to love with your whole heart 

just know that when it is the right person,

you will never be too much

because it is not unreasonable or selfish

to want your energy to be returned to you

you deserve someone who knows your value

and that you're far too precious to lose

and so, until they come along,

I think it's best to remain alone

until someone can love you in the way that you can,

on your own


 

PROMISE


I do not believe in other halves,

we are whole, yet intrinsically connected

there is no tangible point where you begin or I end,

our souls are tightly threaded

of all the places we have been and seen,

before of each other's existence we knew

there is no far-off place that would not feel like home,

when I am held by you

we dance in moonlight on balconies,

humming tunes soft and sweet

sing songs in your car, side by side,

the soundtrack of our memories

with sand in the cracks of its handbrake and seats,

over to your leg, I will always reach... 

for as long as we are happy,

I promise, I am yours to keep

and no, I have never been one for promises,

I tend to believe what I see

the promises that I make

are also few and far between

but what is life without love

and what is love without risk

and to take this risk is as easy as breathing

and so to you, I promise this


 

LOST


they met when they were lost

but soon swore to never go 

when deep within each other's hearts

they found it safe to build a home

he bandaged up her wounds

while she sparked up his fire 

the two lost souls were certain

they'd found the cure to their desire

it was romance, even love,

a feeling so unknown

they cherished each other in all the ways

they had craved but never been shown

although their love was magical

a connection so seemingly rare

they soon realised their wounds had not healed

and their seams began to tear

perhaps it is space a moment to breathe

to spend some time apart

that distance could be the medicine

they need to heal their fragile hearts

walking around with broken parts

working carefully to heal their pain 

in the hope that in loving themselves

they may be together again


 

FEAR OF FALLING


from past lovers we're conditioned to expect disappointment 

society taught us the only way to be a romantic was hopeless

to prevent disappointment we live in fear of our own hope 

do not let your dreams run wild or eventually you'll run out of rope

even memories of the times that love was soft and sweet 

are jaded by the final crash that became our bitter reality

and so when someone's love shines light on the shadows cast 

by disingenuous intentions of others in the past

wounds to be healed will resurface, love requires opening up 

although vulnerability is necessary, it is your decision when it comes to trust

embrace the happiness in front of you for your heart is worth unlocking 

through experiencing the love that you deserve you overcome your fear of falling



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